How many of your problems and unresolved shadows are triggered by the other gender?
So if you are female – how many of your fears, accusations, jealousy and how much shame is connected to the male gender?
And if you are male – how many of your fears, accusations, jealousy and how much shame is connected to the female gender?
How much do you hate and despise the other gender?
How much would you like to be the other gender?
How much do you adore and love the other gender?
What can you learn from the other gender?
How could you make the power of the other gender serve you in a constructive way?