Lernen

Lernen

Lernen geht eigentlich nur dann richtig gut und easy, wenn man selbst das zu Lernende für sich annimmt, in sich einsinken lässt.
Es verändert das Leben, Deine Kenntnisse, Deine Zugehörigkeit, Deine Vorlieben, Deine Interessen.
Durch Lernen werden wir anders, als wir zuvor waren. Weiterlesen „Lernen“

Shame

Shame

One of the most significant influences to stay in a co-dependent relationship is shame.
If shame weren´t so powerful, people would probably leave the addicted relationship earlier.
So shame keeps not only the relationship going, but shame also provides what is neccesary for the addiction to grow stronger:

The person who becomes co-dependent might have been sane and smart before starting the new relationship. The addict usually has learned strategies that allow him to live his addiction so that nobody really assumes an addiction. Even the addict buys into his own story of not being an addict for the most part. Weiterlesen „Shame“