Is temporo-mandibular joint dysfunction (TMJD) an expression of masked depression?

Is TMD/CMD a disease or a symptom?

In my dental practice, I am increasingly dealing with bruxism, cranio-mandibular dysfunctions (CMD), temporo-mandibular joint disorder (TMD, TMJD).
All of the three have in common, that the muscles and joints that physiologically help us to chew, and the teeth engage in subconscious high-tension parafunctions like grinding, pressing and clenching the teeth.
It is not possible to willingly stop it, yet most of the times it happens at night while asleep.

Dental night guards can provide a little relief and protection for the enamel.
But some people just grind on, till it hurts so much that they need painkillers and psychotherapy.

In my practice, this phenomenon affects about 50% of women and a little less affects men.

I want to shed light on the question of what drives us to grind and clench our teeth until our jaws, teeth, temporomandibular joints, and muscles hurt and wear out. Muscles and tendons shorten, adhere together, and harden, temporomandibular joints become inflamed, and teeth loosen, break or die.

Chronic CMD makes your teeth get shorter, weaker, and more brittle. The resulting inflammation of your periodontium is shedding the tooth more and more! You hear noises, tinnitus!

You lose your TEETH by subconsciously gritting, grinding, rubbing, and pressing them!
The consequences are dramatic, and sooner or later many people with severe CMD end up with alcohol, psychotherapy, heavy painkillers, or antidepressants.

Antidepressants for CMD, you ask yourself?

Yes, antidepressants! In severe cases of CMD, a lightly dosed antidepressant is recommended.

That brings us to the topic.
Modern dental medicine can offer prescriptions of painkillers, muscle-relaxants, physiotherapy, gymnastics, magnesium, night-guards and in severe cases joint-surgeries. We can spread the word of self-awareness, relaxation and bio-feedback-exercises to relax your muscles.
What modern dentistry cannot deliver is to cure the causes of heavy grinding, bruxism, and CMD. The affected neuro-muscular system responds to inner tension, sorrow, anxiety, fear. Progressive CMD leads to more insecurity, more fear, more pain, even to quitting or losing partners and jobs.

In chronc high-tension- situations some people acquire auto-immune-disorders, like asthma, or allergies, some get heart-attacks, and some get orthopedic issues like disc-prolapses and CMD.

All of this leads us to the question:

Is CMD a disease or a symptom?

The longer I observe cranio-mandibular dysfunctions, the more I see them as symptoms of suppressed life energy.

We humans have been suppressing our anger and pain since childhood and learn that we are more socially acceptable when we put on a mask and smile in a friendly manner.

So we smile and work hard to be accepted and loved.

In us, however, all the situations of suppressed anger, fear, and pain turn into deep grief, and with every decade we become sadder and more dependent on work, alcohol, porn, or the encouragement of others.

When and how should we stop this?

How can we get out of it?

What can we do with all of the pent-up anger and self-destruction?

What can you do instead of the involuntary, self-destructive crunching and pressing?

I’m afraid you won’t be able to avoid facing yourself.

We humans have always had only one task in life:

Know yourself and become who you are!

But how does that work?

There are many ways and methods to do this.

Some people find their way to their core through the parental home, others through philosophy or intellectual activity in school, and still others through recurring life patterns that keep them busy.

There’s no shame in not making it on your own. On the contrary, very few of us make it alone. In contrast, most people find their meaning in life by other people mirroring their patterns and core-issues to them, be it in friendships, love relationships, divorces, employment relationships, or in parenting.

You can also seek for targeted coaching on this topic.

If you are interested in your self-awareness — then book a coaching with me. We will check you mentally, physically-materially, psychologically-emotionally, and spiritually!

We will dance with the flow and it will be pure magic

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This article originally was published on 04. October 2020 on Medium at The Innovation

6 Gratis-Rezensions-Exemplare für mein Buch Rauschliebe!

Liebe Leser*innen,
Ich wünsche mir neue Buch-Rezensionen auf Amazon, Thalia, LovelyBooks und Goodreads.
Und natürlich auf Euren eigenen Blogs!
Für Oktober habe ich mir 6 neue Rezensionen ausgemalt!
Wer Lust und Zeit zum Lesen und Rezensieren hat, kann mir gern hier antworten oder mir eine PN über karmen@jurela.de mailen.

Ich bin gespant, wer sich meldet und rezensiert!

Dress for success – What is that supposed to mean?

Last week I was invited to an event with a dresscode: „Dress for success!“

My first thought was to wear a business suit.
My second thought was to wear a track suit or sweatpants and a sweatshirt. 
My irresolution lead me to these questions:

What is success anyway, and how do I feel, when I am successful? 
What do I connect with a successful life?
What do I wear when I am successful? 

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Write here! Write now!

Write here! Write now!

Lovely penpals, writers, bloggers, authors, scribblers, poets, and readers!

I cannot express how grateful I am to be a writer, too.

A couple of weeks ago I had a crazy day:

  • I received the proofreading of my book for adjustments before the book set and publication.
  • I got the design of my new business card for my new coaching business, which in my head really is the same thing.
  • I was nominated for a blogger award.
  • and I got an invitation to publish in an online magazine.

That happened all on the same day.

That happened all on the same day.

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Giving = Taking

What we put into the world, we add to the world.
The world is our environment, so we add to our environment what we put into the world.

If you want to live in a good environment, then bring good things into the world.

By pointing your judging finger at somebody and by saying they were or did wrong or by badmouthing something, you become the badmouth.
Through your negative judgement and belittleling words you let bad things get into the world, into your environment.

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Die gängigsten negativen Glaubenssätze

Solange wir Menschen sind, haben wir es mit negativen Glaubenssätzen zu tun.
Wie bewusst oder unbewusst sie sind und bleiben, entscheidet über unser Leben, und darüber wie glücklich wir werden und wie gut uns zu leben gelingt.

Schaut Euch mal diese Liste an.
Wahrscheinlich klingelt es nicht nur an einer Stelle.
Bitte schaut mal, welcher Glaubenssatz besonders laut klingelt und von welchem überhaupt nicht sein kann, dass er Euch betrift.
Bitte prüft den Glaubenssatz, von dem Ihr Euch am meisten distanziert, sehr gründlich, es könnte nämlich sein, dass dieser sich besonders gut tarnt.

Und ja, diese Auswahl ist nur sehr kurz. Es gibt noch mehr unbewusste Glaubenssätze, die uns das Leben schwermachen.

1) Ich bin es nicht wert / Ich bin wertlos
Sucht Bestärkung und Liebe von außen.

2) Ich bin nicht (gut) genug
Sucht Ganzheit, den Seelenpartner.

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How to be happy in a rotten world

The more I read and learn about happiness and a successful way of life, the more I believe that it is crucial to stay away from the „news“ and negative propaganda.

If it is true that every soul creates its own reality in 3D, and I believe it is true, then we must consciously choose our surroundings, the people and information we allow to enter our lives.

If we want to take care of our surroundings, we cannot let the biggest 4-6 News-Agencies in the world rule our lives.

News agencies need to sell newsworthy material. That is their highest priority agenda.

It has been found out that positive headlines don’t sell as well as negative ones. Of course, all leading news-agencies aim to sell big, and that is why they have become what they are.

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I am now a Writer for An-Idea on Medium!

Medium

A couple of days ago I was invited to write for a publication on Medium.
It is called An-Idea and it is very young and still small.
It was such a lovely surprise to me, since I publish quite rarely on Medium – and actually not especially eagerly.
There are only two handful of articles that I shared on Medium.

To be honest, I didn´t think that my writings, that come in German most of the times, could find a publication there.

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